I've struggled with this most of my life.
I would start thing with lots of energy and enthusiasm.
But once things wouldn’t go as I expected or wished for, I lost my motivation and interest.
Finally I would stop completely. Then later on it would start to frustrate me.
I would start to experience the consequences of not finishing what I’ve started earlier.
It started to affect both my personal and my professional lives.
I got sick of it and wanted to change this pattern.
But I didn’t know how.
Then one day I finished a 20 weeks project that someone else was having the lead on. It felt so damn good!
So I looked at all the other things I hadn't finished but still could.
I took the biggest one and looked at it. Searching for the reason of my failure. I couldn’t see it.
So I turned to my intuition and felt, deeper and deeper. Then I came across the fear that was blocking it.
I had two choices: running away or facing it.
The first would have changed nothing in my life. I would keep wasting both my time and that of the people around me and depending on my actions.
I chose the second option. I faced my fear and acted upon it!
From that point on I started to see a change in my life. In both my personal and my professional lives things smoothened and it felt great.
I no longer had to worry about the consequences of not finishing things. I got more free time. I got less stress because of it. And I became even more pleasant to be around.
Recently I accumulated a bunch of unfinished things again (important things), this time due to my spontaneous emigration from Amsterdam to Bucharest.
For 7 months I was struggling and juggling all the changes in my life. It costed me lots of energy and this started to affect my famous optimism.
Don't get me wrong here, I had lots of support from my wonderful girlfriend; my closest friends had also been supporting me a lot! Still, this move had a lot of impact.
Then came the moment where I finished a long lasting project lead by my dear friend and great healer Adrian. This gave me such a boost! I started to regain my confidence, optimism and energy!
This is when I decided to share this experience with others, with you who read my blog and with you who struggle with the same problem and who want to break this pattern and change your life!
So for those among you who have struggled and suffered enough:
Contact me here.
As I wrote earlier: this applies to both your Personal and your Professional life!
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