We Got Robbed. So What Now?
Spontaneous Insights Ep 37
by Lotfi M’Rad
We got robbed.
My partner’s phone got hacked.
And we lost most of our financial assets.
What do you do when that happens?
Going to the police? Sure. But it won’t bring the money back. That’s already clear.
And now, we’re faced with immediate problems — paying bills, covering the basics, and letting go of plans we had for this summer.
My partner’s phone got hacked.
And we lost most of our financial assets.
What do you do when that happens?
Going to the police? Sure. But it won’t bring the money back. That’s already clear.
And now, we’re faced with immediate problems — paying bills, covering the basics, and letting go of plans we had for this summer.
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Hitting the Floor, Then Choosing to Stand
After it happened, I took a few days to just… be.
I let the anger rise.
I let the frustration pass through my body.
And underneath it all, I found sadness.
Not just disappointment.
It felt like being kicked hard while already down.
But I chose not to stay down.
Still — I don’t know exactly what to do next.
How to pay the bills. How to reschedule the life we had just planned.
I let the anger rise.
I let the frustration pass through my body.
And underneath it all, I found sadness.
Not just disappointment.
It felt like being kicked hard while already down.
But I chose not to stay down.
Still — I don’t know exactly what to do next.
How to pay the bills. How to reschedule the life we had just planned.
I’ve Seen This Coming
For years, I’ve spoken about the polarities intensifying, the darkness surfacing, the collapse of systems. This, too, is part of that.
It’s life asking me — once again — to take a different course.
I just don’t know yet which one.
So I practice what I teach.
I stay calm.
I do my best to take care of myself.
And I let the emotions move.
It’s life asking me — once again — to take a different course.
I just don’t know yet which one.
So I practice what I teach.
I stay calm.
I do my best to take care of myself.
And I let the emotions move.
Rage, Yes. But No Violence
Yes, I raised my voice, as the British would say. (I screamed really loud)
I felt rage.
If I’d found the thieves, I don’t know what I might’ve done.
But I also recognize — they’re carrying their own demons.
They made choices from survival, from disconnection.
It doesn’t justify it.
But it reminds me that we all carry wounds — and sometimes, we hurt others as a result.
I’ve done that too — unintentionally, through choices that felt right for me but hurt others.
I felt rage.
If I’d found the thieves, I don’t know what I might’ve done.
But I also recognize — they’re carrying their own demons.
They made choices from survival, from disconnection.
It doesn’t justify it.
But it reminds me that we all carry wounds — and sometimes, we hurt others as a result.
I’ve done that too — unintentionally, through choices that felt right for me but hurt others.
A Moment That Mattered
The morning after, my little 2-year-old son came to lie next to me. Just quiet. Just still.
He almost never does that.
He’s usually glued to his mom.
But in that moment, he came to me.
He just was with me.
And I got emotional.
That moment healed something in me.
He almost never does that.
He’s usually glued to his mom.
But in that moment, he came to me.
He just was with me.
And I got emotional.
That moment healed something in me.
What to Do When Others Are Hurt
People want to help.
They give advice. They try to fix.
But what we really need, first and foremost, is someone who will simply be there.
Not to distract. Not to numb.
But to hold space.
Don’t take them out to get wasted.
Don’t push them to forget.
Let the emotions come up.
That’s what I told my partner too.
She’s strong. She went into action mode.
But now she’s hitting the place where action isn’t enough.
It’s time to feel.
They give advice. They try to fix.
But what we really need, first and foremost, is someone who will simply be there.
Not to distract. Not to numb.
But to hold space.
Don’t take them out to get wasted.
Don’t push them to forget.
Let the emotions come up.
That’s what I told my partner too.
She’s strong. She went into action mode.
But now she’s hitting the place where action isn’t enough.
It’s time to feel.
Holding Space — For Others and Myself
It’s not easy to be supportive when you’re both hurting.
So I did what I could.
And then, I took space.
I had a long midnight walk with our dog.
He wasn’t happy — he wanted to go home and eat.
But I needed that walk.
And it helped.
So I did what I could.
And then, I took space.
I had a long midnight walk with our dog.
He wasn’t happy — he wanted to go home and eat.
But I needed that walk.
And it helped.
Zooming Out
What happened to us is painful.
But when I zoom out, I remember — others are losing homes, loved ones, entire cities to war and greed.
All because some rich man here decides to fight another rich man over there…
…and both make a profit while people suffer.
It puts things into perspective.
But when I zoom out, I remember — others are losing homes, loved ones, entire cities to war and greed.
All because some rich man here decides to fight another rich man over there…
…and both make a profit while people suffer.
It puts things into perspective.
Why I’ve Been Quiet
I had videos ready to upload, but I just couldn’t.
I shared one post — the July energy update — but that was it.
My mind wasn’t in the right place.
But I’m back now.
I’m available for sessions again — coaching, mentoring, channeling.
Yes, it’s how I make a living.
But it’s also what I love.
I shared one post — the July energy update — but that was it.
My mind wasn’t in the right place.
But I’m back now.
I’m available for sessions again — coaching, mentoring, channeling.
Yes, it’s how I make a living.
But it’s also what I love.
Doing What I Love Anyway
One of the gifts I have — one I deeply cherish — is that no matter what’s happening in my life, when I sit with a client, I’m present.
I leave my stuff behind.
I become fully available.
That’s not just professionalism — that’s presence.
I leave my stuff behind.
I become fully available.
That’s not just professionalism — that’s presence.
So If You’re Going Through Something…
If you need guidance, coaching, clarity — I’m here.
And yes, it supports me too.
Not just financially — but mentally, emotionally, spiritually.
It lets me do what I love most.
And yes, it supports me too.
Not just financially — but mentally, emotionally, spiritually.
It lets me do what I love most.
Final Words
The next videos you’ll see from me were recorded before this happened.
So the energy might feel different.
But the next ones will reflect where I am now.
If you’re facing your own setback, let this be your reminder:
Take the time.
I sat. I breathed. I pressed record.
And here this is.
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So the energy might feel different.
But the next ones will reflect where I am now.
If you’re facing your own setback, let this be your reminder:
Take the time.
- Let yourself feel.
- Let yourself scream.
- Let yourself grieve.
- And then… listen.
I sat. I breathed. I pressed record.
And here this is.
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