How do you go Deep?

Posted 15-09-2015

On June 16th 2015 I wrote “What is Going Deep?”
At the end I promised to write about how to go deep.
Well finally here it is.

I’m not reading what I wrote that day, simply not to influence what came to me now that made me decide to write now.

There are probably as many ways to go deep as there have been souls on this earth.

So take this as an inspiration to find your own particular way. And Relax: there is no good or bad way. There is simply your way. Remember this.


When you say going deep: it means you are not, you are at the surface or you just dove a little.

In a lifetime, I do believe in multiple reincarnations for a soul, it all begins not by going deep: when being conceived and while spending around 9 months in your mother’s womb, YOU ARE DEEP! As deep as it gets!
You are connected on many levels: physically, emotionally, energetically, on soul level,… you name it.

During this period everything is related to your mother.
You feel what and how she feels; this is how for example you may get born full of stressed or fear.
The total opposite is also very possible, but that we consider it to be normal.

After birth you try to stay connected and you often are through nursing and breastfeeding.
The connection with your father has to grow, even to be buildup from scratch.

Then we start to meet more people, at the day care, school,… with all those people we generally have to build up a connection. And the way we do this is very much influenced by our parents, the people who raise us. But also by the people we are surrounded with as we observe them and want to be liked by them, so we copy their behavior.

And there you go….

We want to be accepted and appreciated, therefore we act like others or as we believe they would like us to. But is this who we are? You may say today that you behave naturally, that you are who you are, that people like you and like how you act. And that it’s perfect this way.

I have a question for you: Do you feel, eyes closed, how the people around you feel, what they want, what they despise, how they truly feel about you?

It’s safe to say that most of us do not.

And notice that I use the word “act”.

No worries, the fact that you are still reading means that there is still hope for you too.

You are, or you have been for a while, more or less, conscious about this.

In fact, I myself, I’m still in the process of discovering who I truly am. And that does also influence how people perceive me.

But…. I’ve come a long way! And I will share with you what I’ve learned, how to develop yourself in this perspective and what good it will bring you.


​For now, let this sink in for a day or two and relax.


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Part 2

​A few days ago I saw for the first time a video of Tony Robins. In this video he explains how mirroring the other will help you to connect and mostly for the other to like you. I believe that using this technique extensively is the same as keeping you mask on for the rest of your life.

But in that same video he also gave another tool that he prescribed for couples: “Make love for at least one hour and a half and during all that time you have to keep your breaths synchronized”.

I believe that you should start with the breath synchronization. And look each other in the eyes, don’t force it, if it does not come easy, then look for a few seconds and look away. Then look again and so on. You’ll get more and more comfortable doing it. There is no right time or frequency. Go with the flow.

Later on you’ll naturally like to cuddle and maybe even make love in a natural way. Don’t plan or force anything.

I insist, no need to force anything. And of course, there is no forcing the other, this has to be consensual.

This tip is just the beginning.



Remember to what extent twins are connected.

Wouldn’t it be great to have that kind of connection with your closest friends? Then with your other friends? Then with you acquaintances? And later with everyone you meet?
Simply feeling what their true intentions are before they even speak or act.


The first, many, times I experienced a deep connection with someone other than my mother; I fell in love. First time at the age of 12 and it kept happening for many, many years. Until…. I discovered my soul and realized what a soul to soul connection is.


Of course it is easy to confuse a soul connection with falling in love. People have been talking a lot about meeting your soulmate.


But hey, if you’re a guy and you meet another guy and there is a soul connection, oh and you are both not gay: then suddenly a strong friendship is logical.
Doesn’t sound that logical anymore, right?

Well, this kind of friendship is also very possible AND natural between people who could get sexually involved. (Straight people from the opposite sex or gay people from the same sex) And I can tell you by experience that it’s very possible to start experiencing this no matter what kind of life you’ve had until that point.


And it is a fantastic feeling!



It also gives you a feeling of freedom. Because you stop judging what you see, you simply start to feel and communicate freely with one another.


And it makes your life so much easier!


It is only when I discovered my soul that I started to be able to connect on the soul level with others.

I became aware that I could connect very deeply with a woman without having any other needs. It became simply about connecting. True strong friendships got born. No effort was needed. Simply meeting and knowing that you are meant to meet.

Then I started meeting more people the same way. People I have less in common with, but still, we did connect. And our interaction was very intuitive.


Since, it has become more and more frequent. A colleague at work, a client on the phone, the people in a workshop, the cashier at the supermarket,… It can happen everywhere. And you do not need to talk; sometimes it’s just someone in the same room or bus.


This did change my life! And still does.


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