Taoist Tantra
The original article from which I took most of the content was written in Spanish on Facebook, page of Shiva & Shakti - Alquimia
Copying your favorite the porn scene will most likely not get you and your partner to fully experience what's available for you both through lovemaking.
Read this article carefully and let it sink in. Share it with your partner. Talk about it and what you both would like to try first. Do not try to get all right from the first time. Take it slow and discover yourselves and each other. It's not a competition or and exam you need to pass. It's about being together in the here and now, discovering and exploring each other and yourselves.
Enjoy the read and the gentle lovemaking.
Read this article carefully and let it sink in. Share it with your partner. Talk about it and what you both would like to try first. Do not try to get all right from the first time. Take it slow and discover yourselves and each other. It's not a competition or and exam you need to pass. It's about being together in the here and now, discovering and exploring each other and yourselves.
Enjoy the read and the gentle lovemaking.
Background
Tantra sees the universe as a manifestation of divine consciousness in a state of "Cosmic joke" or game, expressed by the balance of feminine and masculine energy: Shakti and Shiva.
A Branch of Tantra was developed that used sexuality as a way to the realization of the divine. In Tantra, the vagina is the seat of the divine, and the fluid (Kuladravya) or nectar (Kulamrita), originating in the heavens.
From the 2nd until the 18th century, a Taoist tradition of similar sexual practices and a related sexual philosophy was developed in China. In the Tao, the vagina was also seen as divine and a source of life.
He encouraged men to bring the woman to orgasm with great care and skill, to benefit from the energy essences of yin (female polarity of the entire yin-yang earthly).
From the 2nd until the 18th century, a Taoist tradition of similar sexual practices and a related sexual philosophy was developed in China. In the Tao, the vagina was also seen as divine and a source of life.
He encouraged men to bring the woman to orgasm with great care and skill, to benefit from the energy essences of yin (female polarity of the entire yin-yang earthly).
Slow down and be gentle
The penis was seen as a receiver for female vaginal fluids. Men received training on the basis of the classic texts of sexual yoga (the "penis education") to ensure that they fulfilled their women sexually with long caresses and carefully rhythmic penetration, as the personal and cosmic harmony along with the offspring Sana looked like dependent on female sexual ecstasy.
It is known from these spiritual currents, that man should delay his climax (ejaculation) to adapt to the difference in the time of excitement between 'fire and water' to guarantee that of the woman.
It is said that the woman loves slow and duration, hates the rush and violence. The woman expresses her desires through the sounds (Yin), movements (Tung) and signs (arrival or Tao).
In their sexual responses, it compares to the water element, "it takes to warm up and it takes to cool down". (...) long preliminaries are a fundamental precondition for orgasm.
It is said that the woman loves slow and duration, hates the rush and violence. The woman expresses her desires through the sounds (Yin), movements (Tung) and signs (arrival or Tao).
In their sexual responses, it compares to the water element, "it takes to warm up and it takes to cool down". (...) long preliminaries are a fundamental precondition for orgasm.
Taoist texts on sex ensure that women's sexual intensity is greater than that of their male partner and therefore it was necessary for men to have a sexual training to harmonize these innate discrepancies. The techniques taught cultivated male sexual control and belief in a "Jade Fluid" produced by women to provide health. Taoist texts on sex say that women release medicinal fluids from different parts of the body, even under the tongue, breasts and vagina.
The goal of man, also for the sake of his own health, was to provoke the release of these precious liquids: the sacred text of Taoism " the great medicine of the three peaks " explains that the female breast provides the " Jade Juice ". That by being sucked by man, he nourishes his spleen and his spinal cord. When licking the nipples, it also opens " all female meridians " and " relaxes the mind and body of the woman ". That action penetrates the " flowery well " and stimulates the lower " Mysterious Portal ", making the fluids of the body and the Chi (energy) increase.
When the sexual relationship happens, the emotions of the woman are voluptuous, her face red and her voice becomes shaky. At that time, his portal opens, his Chi is released and the secretions flow. If the man wields his " Jade Stem " a few inches and becomes aware of the " give and receive ", then he will be accepting the Chi and absorbing his secretions, strengthening his own " Primary Yang " and taking care of his spirit.
The importance of these practices
These terms, so strange to our culture, deserve attention. A woman who thinks of her vagina and sexuality in that way - in which the essence that flows from her vagina during oral sex is considered a source of health to the partner - and if he learned that his first duty is to relax the body of the Woman before making love with her, she would be free from the pressures that many western women suffer when they receive sexual care, ranging from anxiety for the delay of reaching orgasm to guilt for their "sexual selfishness".
That's the key to women's sexual opening.
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