Private session
People often ask me, “But what actually happens in a session?”
It’s a fair question. This work is subtle, often wordless, and hard to describe in conventional terms. But at its heart, it’s about presence—deep, resonant, and precise.
A session isn’t a performance. It’s not something I do to someone. It’s a space we enter together—a field where energy, memory, story, and soul can realign. Where the body leads, the breath speaks, and insight can arise without being forced.
In this post, I want to offer a clearer window into that process. I’ll share expanded stories of real clients (with details changed for privacy), common themes that surface again and again, and a look behind the scenes of how I work. Not to demystify the sacred—but to show that this kind of healing is accessible, grounded, and deeply human.
2 Examples
STORY 1: The Unspoken Grief (Expanded)
She entered quietly, shoulders high, jaw set. The kind of silence that speaks of years holding it all together.
We began with breath—slow, simple grounding. I invited her to feel her feet. To let her spine settle.
She said very little. But her body spoke volumes.
With gentle constellation work, we tuned into a hidden loyalty: a grief she’d carried for her mother. A miscarriage no one had ever spoken about. As we gave it voice in the field, her body trembled. One tear fell. Then another. And another.
She didn’t need to explain it. She just needed it to be seen. In that sacred witnessing, the knot in her chest began to soften.
She left that day not smiling—but serene. Her breath fuller. Her presence quieter. She later wrote, "It feels like something is finally in its right place."
She entered quietly, shoulders high, jaw set. The kind of silence that speaks of years holding it all together.
We began with breath—slow, simple grounding. I invited her to feel her feet. To let her spine settle.
She said very little. But her body spoke volumes.
With gentle constellation work, we tuned into a hidden loyalty: a grief she’d carried for her mother. A miscarriage no one had ever spoken about. As we gave it voice in the field, her body trembled. One tear fell. Then another. And another.
She didn’t need to explain it. She just needed it to be seen. In that sacred witnessing, the knot in her chest began to soften.
She left that day not smiling—but serene. Her breath fuller. Her presence quieter. She later wrote, "It feels like something is finally in its right place."
STORY 2: The Weight That Wasn't Hers (Expanded)
He came in with anxiety. Constant overthinking. A tight chest that no breathwork had resolved.
During a group workshop, as we explored energetic entanglements, a pattern emerged. He had been carrying his father's unspoken fears—about safety, failure, being good enough.
As he stood representing his younger self in a constellation, something shifted. He looked at the 'father' in the field and said, "I love you. But I can't carry this anymore."
The tears came freely then.
He didn’t just understand it intellectually—he felt it.
That night, he said, was the first time in years he slept through without waking in panic. "It’s like I’ve been waiting for permission to let this go," he shared.
He came in with anxiety. Constant overthinking. A tight chest that no breathwork had resolved.
During a group workshop, as we explored energetic entanglements, a pattern emerged. He had been carrying his father's unspoken fears—about safety, failure, being good enough.
As he stood representing his younger self in a constellation, something shifted. He looked at the 'father' in the field and said, "I love you. But I can't carry this anymore."
The tears came freely then.
He didn’t just understand it intellectually—he felt it.
That night, he said, was the first time in years he slept through without waking in panic. "It’s like I’ve been waiting for permission to let this go," he shared.
Common Themes I See
In session after session, I see similar threads:
- People carrying emotions that aren’t theirs (ancestral or familial)
- Adults still bound by childhood roles
- Deep truths that were never spoken aloud
- The body holding stories the mind has long forgotten
In the field we create together, these can come to light—not as concepts, but as felt truths.
People often say:
- "I had no idea I was still holding that."
- "It makes so much sense now."
- "I didn’t even need to explain it—you just felt it."
What Actually Happens in a Session
While every session is unique, there are core threads:
Some sessions are quiet and deep. Others are active and catalytic. All are held in love.
- Grounding & presence: We begin by arriving fully—breath, body, awareness.
- Reading the field: I tune into subtle cues—physical, emotional, energetic.
- Constellation or intuitive process: This could be silent or spoken, physical or symbolic.
- Energetic release: Sometimes it’s a breath. Sometimes a sentence. Sometimes a deep cry.
- Integration: We ground again. Reflect. Anchor the new awareness.
Some sessions are quiet and deep. Others are active and catalytic. All are held in love.
My Reflections
What continues to move me is how quickly truth emerges when we hold a space without judgment. People drop into themselves. They remember. They reclaim what was never lost—just buried.
This work teaches me humility. Every session is sacred. Every person is whole, even in their fragmentation.
An Invitation
If you’ve been feeling the nudge to explore your inner landscape—to release what isn’t yours, reclaim your clarity, and remember who you truly are—I welcome you.
Come as you are.
Bring your questions. Your grief. Your numbness. Your curiosity.
Let’s sit in the mystery together, and watch what unfolds.
Come as you are.
Bring your questions. Your grief. Your numbness. Your curiosity.
Let’s sit in the mystery together, and watch what unfolds.
Your goal can be:
Discussing a specific subject: personal or work related (for business owners click here)
- Getting something off your chest that’s bothering you
- Addressing feelings that trouble or even block you
- Putting and end to running into the same problem over and over again
- Resolving the "hitting a wall" and not knowing how to overcome it
- Lifting a blockage (one that has been there for years or even decades)
- Releasing and healing old pain caused by trauma, youth, (karmic) relationships...
- Wanting to get rid of a fear
- Discovering your true purpose and mission in this life
- Finding your inner strength and connecting to it
- Simply "finding" happiness
One of my goals is to help my clients become independent and harness their inner power.
We can do this in English and Nederlands.
Number of sessions and pricing:
Some do choose to have a single session as they have a simple issue to resolve.
A package of 5 sessions is more efficient to actually reach your goal. It's one thing to know what to change and another thing to actually change things in your life, especially applying changes to your daily life. 5 sessions, usually one every other week, help you also during the implementation phase of your solution & changes. It is both my personal experience and that of my clients that I base this on.
You can choose to take an additional package or a mentoring package to help you for a longer period of time to help you in your integration process.
A package of 5 sessions is more efficient to actually reach your goal. It's one thing to know what to change and another thing to actually change things in your life, especially applying changes to your daily life. 5 sessions, usually one every other week, help you also during the implementation phase of your solution & changes. It is both my personal experience and that of my clients that I base this on.
You can choose to take an additional package or a mentoring package to help you for a longer period of time to help you in your integration process.
You are reading this for a reason, so take the next step and Request a private session or an intake here.
You are reading this for a reason, so take the next step and Request a private session or an intake here.
Terms:
- You request by hitting the Request button below and fill in the form. Please answer all the questions to help a smooth setup of the schedule.
- From there we will have a short call during which we will discuss how to proceed.
- The Terms & Conditions do apply. You can find them here and a link at the bottom of every page of this website.
I decided to base my prices on a list of the average income per country as well as the individual situation of my client. This will be discussed during the intake. You can see the prices below.
Prices are in € EUR.
See Rates of your local currency here.
See Rates of your local currency here.
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Zone 1
Intake € 50,= 1 session € 110,= 5 sessions € 400,= |
Zone 2
Intake € 40,= 1 session € 80,= 5 sessions € 300,= |
Zone 3
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